Hi. I am Gilead, a relational and Gestalt psychotherapist.  I believe that we best learn about ourselves and grow through our relationships.  To learn how we impact on others and how they impact on us will determine the quality of our relationships and in turn the quality of our lives.  I also see relationships as an activity rather than a mere concept, which to me means that we have an active role in shaping them and being shaped by them.  I help couples and individuals to build enduring and fulfilling relationships.

You can read my writing, thoughts and research about relationships below


Latest notes:

  • Thoughts on the changes ahead - “For a self that goes on changing is a self that goes on living”. Virginia Woolf You have known your partner/ wife/ husband/ friends for a long time and they are who they are, always have been and always will be – chances of them changing are slim. Or, maybe they do change and we […]
  • In search of a good relationship: curiosity - In his most celebrated book, the Prophet (1923), Kahlil Gibran wrote on marriage: “And let the winds of the heavens dance between you”.  “Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one […]

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